Marriage Counseling And Advice To Bachelors

1 Understanding Who Is A Woman

He that found a wife findeth a good thing and obtaineth favor from the Lord. But if such wife sworn over her dead body that you would not make heaven. My dear brother; you will need an extra over-size grace to over rule such injunction.

Moreover, there can’t be a complete man without a good woman. Hence, the mixture of such completeness is determined by the special grace to be fulfilled and control such woman. Women are like children, they possessed an opened hole-heart which can’t retain severe offence or objection without been provoked.

They thinketh straight without considering the opposites. Their vital weapon lay in their tongue with greater power to either destroyed their home or buildeth it. They can defend and support their children to any quarters and even some tend to drop their bible in the quest for counter-attack while defending their child.

A woman can forfeit her food and night sleep in the quest of satisfying her child. They are wondrous being and sometimes, they tend to proves stubbornness to hearken unto correction. They are sometimes easily deceived and manipulated irrespective of their academic level. However; to control such caliber of being, requires higher GRACE AND WISDOM OF GOD. I have study women and i can vividly say; “Women are precious creation”

You can easily provoke them and also makes them to laugh-off within same interval. They believed in spoken word and trust. The knowledge and wisdom to understand how they react, what is their cause of reaction, what they need, what they cannot see ahead etc.. is what makes you a complete man.

Marriage Counselling To Single Brother

All that glitters are not gold. Please don’t be deceived by beauty or pleasant gesture character of those sisters around you. Women can pretend and concealed their irritating characters for months and even year. It’s very hard and difficult to decode the inner secret ugly sides of an intelligent woman.

Our Lord is an omnipresent, omnipotent and omniscient God. The secret affair of this world is always exposed unto him. No where you hide that he can’t behold your presence. No thought that you thinketh that he has not already fore-see in the reins of your heart.

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The best and only way of finding your God perfect will woman as a wife, is by seeking the presence of the Lord in prayers. And the best time to commence your prayers is ‪‎NOW. You don’t learnt how to pray about marriage confirmation when you are already lusting after a particular sister.

A prayer comes before beholding the unexpected future wife. When you approach a sister for marriage in neglect of prayers and asked her to pray over it; honestly, inasmuch you are loaded in dollars and pound sterling or still managing life with little Holy Ghost anointing, she will certainly agree even before you proposed to her.

The greatest mistake that will consumed and wreckage your entire life is when you carelessly soul-ties yourself with a wrong woman. My beloved brother, you will certainly regret your action and wish to remain single. You don’t jump into marriage just because your fellow brother just did his wedding last week. You don’t jump into marriage just because you are wealthy. You don’t jump into marriage just because you are in-love with a particular sister. You don’t jump into marriage just because you don’t want to lose her.

Whenever you entangle yourself into wrong marriage; you will continue to struggle and manage in that marriage. Hence, such marriage will be shackles with endurance, sorrow, pains, complains, fault finding and regrets. Outwardly; people might behold such marriage as HEAVEN-SENT but inwardly suffering from kwashiorkor sickness and miserably wallowing in pains of perpetual endurance.

Endeavor to exercise these hours in prayers and vigils; continue praying for your unseen future wife. Ask the Lord to perfect and uphold her, to re-brand and package her. To make her godly, baptized her with holy ghost and filled her with special fruits of the spirits, channel her with heavenly mindset and desire for righteousness.

Whenever you behold her gorgeous imaginary figure; my dear brother, the Lord will certainly gives you a sign. In fact, you don’t need any prophet or pastor for confirmation because the spirit of the Lord whose dwelled in you cannot lie or deceived. Our Lord isn’t an author of confusion because A GOOD WOMAN WILL ALWAYS BE A GOOD WOMAN.