Why Christians Fall Into Trap Of Sin And Backsliding

Factors Behind The Falling And Backsliding

A child of God falling back into one sinful habit or other is as a result of two major things:m Carelessness and Prayerlessness life. If a child of God falls back into a particular old sin, it may not be because he did not experience genuine salvation, it’s may not be because he was not delivered from that sinful habit at the beginning of his new life, and not because he falls back automatically as if Christian life is all about rising and falling into sin and believing God’s mercy to cover our continuous sins; it is due to carelessness and prayerlessness. Let’s check them one by one.

Carelessness

1 Corinthians 10:12 “Therefore let him who thinks he stands take heed lest he fall” When you are saved by Jesus Christ and become a new person in Him, He sets you free from sinful habits and makes the grace and strength for the new life available, but you need to always take heed – that is to be watchful – so that you don’t fall back into your old sinful habits after all, because Satan does not sleep nor give up on you, he is looking every time for every means to make you fall back into his traps.

Carelessness comes into Christian life through different means:
1. Spiritual Recklessness – knowing that something may lead to sin but you are too confident in yourself that it will not lead you to sin.

Over Confidence; Many Christians, after their salvation and freedom from Sin and Satan, later fall back over and over because of overconfidence. Over confidence is when you “think” that you stand and you cannot fall and so you become too close to source of temptation, the appearance of sin. When you think you stand, it is good but you are the one who think so in the first instance, God does not tell you so; to God, you are still rising and standing but not yet stand.

Don’t over-think of yourself lest you become overconfident. Thinking that you stand is not a problem but taking heed is the priority, so we need to take heed than thinking that we have made all the standing.

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Overconfidence is being confident in your spiritual stand that you get too close to the appearance, the source or the form of sin and being confident you will not or never fall. The truth is that anybody can fall, irrespective of how long or how strong they have been standing; it is the grace and the strength of God that keeps everyone but the grace of God does not go beyond the limit ground which God lays for us. When we go beyond the limit, we become vulnerable to falling into satanic traps. That is the reason the Lord warns us to abstain from every appearance of evil (sin). 1 Thessalonians 5:22.

In Christian watchfulness, appearance of sin is a sin itself. Just like in traffic system, if you don’t use seat belt while driving, you will be charged. You may not need to say, “But no accident yet.” A careful Christian does not move close to the appearance or form of sin. Appearance or form of evil is a situation or thing that may lead to sin.

We all know where came from, the lifestyles we were living before Jesus saved us, we know our spiritual weaknesses; we all know what can trigger us into sin or make us vulnerable to sin. There are personal and general appearances of sin; anything that may lead to sin or that easily lead us to old habit is appearance of evil, and that is what we need to stay away from. The scripture says “Form of evil” It may be people, places, materials, thoughts, talks, etc.

We must stay far away before they are formed. The form of evil is the forming of sin, the level by which falling may be unavoidable and irresistible, It’s the shadow of sin, when you see a shadow you are sure that the object may be unavoidable.

A careless Christian will be overconfident to reach the appearance of sin, thinking he will not fall, thinking he is too strong and mature to fall, thinking he is a formidable Christian to sin; thinking it’s only baby and weak Christians who fall in such situation, thinking he has gone beyond the level that he will be scared to fall by such temptation, and not knowing that he is the one who thinks he stands.

A careful and watchful Christian knows what can lead her to sin, and she will not wait until she sees the sin before she will take heed. In Christian race, maturity is actually taking heed, knowing when to remain or run, that is self-control and tenderness. On the other way, overconfidence is not maturity but satanic deception to confidently seat on a chair put on a covered pit.

(2) Spiritual Negligence – Not knowing what you ought to know that may cause you to fall into sin, not careful enough. In legal system, no excuse for negligence. Ignorance is different from innocence and we should not see them as the same. Innocence is lack of awareness or lack of existence of something, but ignorance is lack of knowledge, it is a failure to know what you ought to know and fail to follow it. In traffic laws, if you don’t have fire extinguisher in your car, you may be charged, don’t waste your time by saying, “But I am confident I cannot have fire accident”. If you drive too close to another vehicle in front of you and fail to give the regulated space, and you hit the front vehicle because it stopped suddenly, you may be charged with traffic offence and responsible for the accident.

You cannot excuse yourself that the vehicle in front of you stopped suddenly, because if you give considerable gap, you would not hit the vehicle. Likewise, spiritual negligence is careless. Many Christians eventually perished at the end, not because they were not initially saved but because of ignorance, spiritual negligence.

FRIVOLITY: It’s carelessly or ignorantly getting involved in things that weaken spiritual strength, and puncture spiritual life and then make one unable to withstand temptation. This is a common carelessness Satan uses to bring down many Christians into their old sinful habits, because such habits do not immediately lead to sin, they don’t blow or bomb Christian lives at the spot, they only puncture and it is just a matter of time. If a Christian is watchful of satanic bombs, since everybody may run away from bomb, but then Satan can bring in small nails, small arrows that many may seem not harmful but many are victims.

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Such frivolous habits are casual but they cause serious damage and destruction, they are simple but they sink several strong faith. They are like inconsistent Bible reading, over-talking, getting involve in little, little worldly stuffs, watching worldly movies, listening to worldly music, browsing pornographic sites, checking nude pictures, using worldly materials like makeup, worldly dress; watching “decent worldly” TV shows like American Idol, African Idol, Nigerian Idol, dance competition, reality shows that promote immorality and so on. These things indirectly drain spiritual strength, hinder free flow of God’s grace and Spirit, hamper spiritual growth, and eventually make a Christian spiritually weak and unable to resist temptation.

They are subtle but satanic strategies of destroying Christian faith and bringing people back into their old sinful habits. Those who involve in such things often wonder why they always experience up and down, forward and backward in their Christian lives; it is as a result of spiritual negligence of frivolity – not knowing what you ought to know, not taking heed when the Spirit of God quietly cautions you and when the Word of God quickly corrects you, you ignore Him that such things do not matter since every Christian is doing it and doing fine. So such ignorance is inexcusable.

Prayerlessness

1 Thessalonians 5:17, “Pray without ceasing.” A prayer less Christian is a powerless Christian. A Christian who ceases in consistent prayer life will cease from growing in the Spirit and starts to fall into old sinful lifestyle. It is biblically impossible to sustain a consistent Christian life without a consistent prayer life, even after many years of Christian life. It is logically, spiritually and biblically impossible to experience and maintain a fervent Christian life without a fervent prayer life.

Prayer and Word of God are the only major sources of spiritual strength and sustenance, and why prayer is very important is that it takes prayer to understand the Word of God and to apply it appropriately. It takes prayer to effectively practice the Word of God and to effectively preach it. Christian life commences with prayer and continues with prayer. A prayer less Christian will be too weak to resist temptation of old sinful life and present temptations.

Jesus prayed and instructed us to pray always in order to keep growing and overcome temptations. Luke 18:1, “And he spake a parable unto them to this end, that men ought always to pray, and not to faint.” Matthew 6:13, “And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil: For thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, forever. Amen.”

The question is, “Why many prayerful Christians are also powerless to resist temptation and prone to fall to old sinful habits? You may also ask why you are not growing in the spirit or strong in the Lord sine you have become more prayerful? Many ask why they still fall back to some sinful habits even though they are more prayerful. The answer to such questions is in James 4:3, “You ask and do not receive, because you ask amiss, that you may spend it on your pleasures.” Asking amiss! Praying a wrong prayer is worse than not praying at all, because it gives false confidence. One can pray ceaselessly and still remain spiritually powerless, because it’s not the action of prayer that matters but it’s active prayer that matters.

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Praying Amiss

Praying amiss or praying wrongly is misplacing priorities or order of precedence in prayer. When we are praying but fail to follow the order of precedence or we misplace priorities of prayer, it means we are praying amiss. A Christian can be praying day and night, praying and fasting and yet always fall back into sin; because he fails to pray it right. In the Bible, Jesus Christ gave us prototype, example of general order of prayer; it is called Our Lord’s Prayer. This prayer lays priorities and precedence of prayer orderly. Matthew 6:8, “Therefore do not be like them. For your Father knows the things you have need of before you ask Him.

Praise and Worship – A right prayer begins with praising God that answers prayers.
Preparation for the Kingdom of God and doing the will of God. In this manner, therefore, pray: Our Father in heaven. Hallowed be Your name
Your kingdom come.
Your will be done On earth as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread.
And forgive us our debts,
As we forgive our debtors.
And do not lead us into temptation.
But deliver us from the evil one.
For Yours is the kingdom and the power and the glory forever. Amen

The precedence of a right prayer is praying on one’s spiritual life as the first request – praying for God’s searching and sanctification, praying for God’s grace to overcome temptation and sinful habits, praying for the strength of Holy Spirit to resist Satan, to be watchful and do the will of God on earth.

After you have been saved and come into the kingdom of God, your prayer must center on God’s grace and strength to remain in the kingdom of God and to do God’s will every day.

Your first prayer points and priority should center on your spiritual life – praying for God’s cleansing, to continuously sanctify you, strengthens you and sustain you. Christians who put their physical, financial or material needs first before their spiritual lives in their prayers suffer spiritual setbacks and become too weak to resist sinful habits. If you are determined to be prayerful, then you need to be watchful on your spiritual life in prayer with how and what you pray about. 1 Peter 4:7, “But the end of all things is at hand; therefore be serious and watchful in your prayers.”

Many Christians pray, many churches organize different prayer meetings and prayer programs, but they pray amiss because their priorities and focus are not on God’s kingdom and living in holiness and righteousness to please God. They center their priorities and prayer points on physical needs, miracles, deliverance and financial prosperity and breakthrough. Such Christians will easily fall back to old sinful habits and persistent temptations because their spiritual lives are not their priorities in their prayers.

To be powerful in the Lord, you must put your spiritual life first in your prayer points; the kingdom of God and His righteousness in your life when you pray every day. Your prayer points order shows your priorities of life, a carnal minded Christians seek first daily bread and butter before focusing on God’s grace and strength to please Him. We must pray for our daily breads, but as you can see in Our Lord’s Prayer, we must first pray on God’s kingdom in our lives and our lives in God’s kingdom, we must pray on doing the will of God. God knows all our needs even before we ask them, but we must persistently ask for God’s grace to have it.

For us to stay strong in the new life in Jesus Christ, to go forward in Christ and never again go backward, we must be watchful and prayerful; we must not be careless and prayerless. Satan does not give up on us, no matter how far we have gone, he is looking for means to come to destroy and steal by all means at every time. So the Master instructs us, “Watch and pray, lest you enter into temptation. The spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak.” Matthew 26:41.

There is no maturity or relenting of watchfulness and prayer until we get to where there is nothing that causes offence and where prayer is no needed, that is heaven. After you stand, take heed – watch and pray – lest you fall. Don’t compare your Christian life with those who are seating or lying on the ground, because he who lies on the ground needs not to take heed of falling. Others may do it but you must not, you must not – because you must not fall, backward, never and forward, ever.

We have laid our hands on the plows and no turning back, never in Jesus name. We have known the truth, we have come to the truth and we must stay in the truth to the end. 2 Peter 3:17, 18 “You therefore, beloved, since you know this beforehand, beware lest you also fall from your own steadfastness, being led away with the error of the wicked; but grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. To Him be the glory both now and forever. Amen.